_50 things what will make your sex life more exciting an joyable! :)

1. Kiss like you did before you had ever done anything else.
2. Breathe together, holding and hugging each other while you do it. 
3. Eat seductively. Really pay attention to how you lick ice cream or chew meat off a bone.  
4. See how long you can stay turned on without taking any of your clothes off.
5. Dry hump with your clothes, or at least your underwear, on.
6. Rub your hair all over his body.
7. For at least one minute, both of you stare into each other's eyes.
8. Set up email accounts using aliases. Then send dirty emails and pictures to that account. 
9. Play a game of striptease.
10. Collaborate on a piece of erotic writing or storytelling. You write/recite a paragraph, then your partner does the same. Go back and forth until you finish the story. 
11. Buy a pair of nitrile gloves and give your partner a gloved hand job. (Trust me, it feels different.)
12. Wear a mask.
13. Wear a wig.
14. Try a new condom, heck, try the female condom.
15. Use a string of pearls (plastic beads will do just fine), and masturbate his penis.
16. Masturbate him with a banana peel. Try warming it in the microwave for five seconds for warmer, happier times.
17. Use lube. Lots of lube. 
18. Use silicone lube and get it on in the shower.
19. Be blindfolded or do the blindfolding.
20. Find three things in the kitchen (like a spatula, wooden spoon, honey) that you can play with sensually.
21. Fingerpaint each other's breasts.
22. Rock around the clit. With your finger, go clockwise from 12 on back, and counterclockwise. See what time feels best.
23. Rent a porn and reenact a scene.
24. Masturbate for each other. Cheer, hoot, and holler for your lover.
25. Read each other an erotic story from a sexy book.
26. Play a board game but change the rules to make them sexy.
27. Try a board game designed to inspire monogamy.
28. Have sex in your car, even if it's parked in the garage.
29. Squeeze your pelvic floor muscles around something or someone. 
30. Figure out a new sex position using pillows.
31. Turn on an electric toothbrush ... use them on his, or her, nipples.
32. Use any vibrator ... on him, in the area known as the perineum, between the bum and the balls.
33. Have a sexy chat, either by video or text, and yes, even if you live together, do it from separate rooms. 
34. Have a contest to see who can come first, or who can hold out longest.
35. Pick out your partner's outfit and dress them up before you dress them down.
36. Buy a wireless vibrator and go out dancing, and let your husband or boyfriend control the remote. 
37. Have sex first thing in the morning.
38. See how high you can bring your sex energy through breathing.
39. Get kinky -- try light spanking or flogging.
40. Try a vibrator built for two. 
41. Make love outdoors.
42. Go on a date to a cheap hotel room.
43. Pay your partner for sex.
44. Give, or get, a lap dance.
45. Slow dance like it's the first time, but not that first awkward time. Unless, of course, awkward turns you on. 
46. Write down some fantasies and put them in a hat. Then pick out a fantasy and act it out. Include a list of props in your fantasy.
47. Give each other head rubs.
48. Massage each other using a soy-based hot wax candle.
49. Leave the lights on. Get naughty. If you feel extra frisky, leave the blinds open too.
50. Make a meal out of aphrodisiac foods. Feed it to each other, or eat the food off one another.

Enjoy! ;)

    It's wonderful Christmas time, it's time to forgive and love. Be with people we love and adore. Family time and time for miracles. Remember how we use to sit with family at huge or even small dinner table and enjoy delicious Christmas food. To chat and laugh, drink hot wine and be all together? In my nation we stood next to Christmas tree and we had to tell poem and then we got present, if there was more presents, you should know more poems! House smells like ginger bread and mandarins, people are happy and relaxed. Singing Christmas songs and cheering, lighting candles and giving presents. Parents use to tell us stories about North pole and Santa. We were kids and we were pure and we believed everything. And It was long time ago...
    What is now? I am in England, my mom in Cyprus, father & sister in Latvia. All my people I love are all around world! Latvia, Cyprus, England, Norway, Scotland and not only... But You know, I am with wonderful people, in warm cozy house and Christmas spirit is here! People are used to want more and more, but to be honest we need so less to be happy! Isn't it? 
    Will Christmas always be the same? Nowadays Christmas is only crazy shopping time and showing off with your house decorations! Giving simple empty Christmas cards. No feelings, no emotions! Christmas is literally declared as shopping festival! Presents! Presents! Presents! Alright, I got it! But where is the family time? Forgiving? Listening? Singing!? Cheering? Family time? Actually Christmas is an annual commemoration of the birth of Jesus Christ, but I do not want to involve here religions. Not time for religion fight. With every upcoming year Christmas spirit gets ruined. People, open Your heart and soul & mind!
    Let's just join all together in peace and joy! Even if you do not celebrate Christmas, I wish You peacefull, bright, and lovely time with Your friends and family! It's time for miracles! Believe and they will follow you all your life! And give some small present to your neighbor, people on the street, just a simple gift as smile! Sometimes it's more worth than anything! Love & Light. :)
Your Andrushka.

     In our life time we make so many mistakes and wrong things. Our mistakes are not end of the world, of course if it doesn't go too far, with what I mean global mistakes, killing, and such a bad things like these. And many people will never admit their own mistakes! So, they does not learn from mistakes!
    You can only learn from a mistake after you admit you’ve made it. As soon as you start blaming other people (or the universe itself) you distance yourself from any possible lesson. But if you courageously stand up and honestly say “This is my mistake and I am responsible” the possibilities for learning will move towards you. Admission of a mistake, even if only privately to yourself, makes learning possible by moving the focus away from blame assignment and towards understanding. Wise people admit their mistakes easily. They know progress accelerates when they do. This advice runs counter to the cultural assumptions we have about mistakes and failure, namely that they are shameful things. We’re taught in school, in our families, or at work to feel guilty about failure and to do whatever we can to avoid mistakes. This sense of shame combined with the inevitability of setbacks when attempting difficult things explains why many people give up on their goals: they’re not prepared for the mistakes and failures they’ll face on their way to what they want. What’s missing in many people’s beliefs about success is the fact that the more challenging the goal, the more frequent and difficult setbacks will be. The larger your ambitions, the more dependent you will be on your ability to overcome and learn from your mistakes.

But for many reasons admitting mistakes is difficult. An implied value in many cultures is that our work represents us: if you fail a test, then you are a failure. If you make a mistake then you are a mistake (You may never have felt this way, but many people do. It explains the behavior of some of your high school or college friends). Like eggs, steak and other tasty things we are given letter grades (A, B, C, D and F) organizing us for someone else’s consumption: universities and employers evaluate young candidates on their grades, numbers based on scores from tests unforgiving to mistakes.

For anyone than never discovers a deeper self-identity, based not on lack of mistakes but on courage, compassionate intelligence, commitment and creativity, life is a scary place made safe only by never getting into trouble, never breaking rules and never taking the risks that their hearts tell them they need to take.

Learning from mistakes requires three things:

1. Putting yourself in situations where you can make interesting mistakes
2. Having the self-confidence to admit to them
3. Being courageous about making changes

One way to categorize mistakes is into these categories:

• Stupid: Absurdly dumb things that just happen. Stubbing your toe, dropping your pizza on your neighbor’s fat cat or poking yourself in the eye with a banana.
• Simple: Mistakes that are avoidable but your sequence of decisions made inevitable. Having the power go out in the middle of your party because you forgot to pay the rent, or running out of beer at said party because you didn’t anticipate the number of guests.
• Involved: Mistakes that are understood but require effort to prevent. Regularly arriving late to work/friends, eating fast food for lunch every day, or going bankrupt at your start-up company because of your complete ignorance of basic accounting.
• Complex: Mistakes that have complicated causes and no obvious way to avoid next time. Examples include making tough decisions that have bad results, relationships that fail, or other unpleasant or unsatisfying outcomes to important things.

   

    Good morning my people, it's 11:01 in Sheffield, UK. The weather today is wet, grey but kinda warm and calm. It's only four days left and Christmas will knock on Your doors. Family, food, songs & presents! As we all know, not everyone will celebrate Christmas, so for the rest of people I wish short and easy working day, and bright and not less happy winter time! ;)
    Always remember to be happy because you never know who's falling in love with your smile.
    I just wanted to put some thought on here, so I can produce new ones, haven't got so much free space in my head though. Here I go...
    Yesterday, all day long I was writting "my life story" (short version). Writting, deleting, editing, again deleting... Still uncomplete. I am not sure what can I share with people, what I should share, and what I should not. To share a memories are not sin, right? Is it wrong? Is it good or even worthless? I gave answer to myself: If you have right people with whom to share and who will listen, go ahead! But if there is no one, or just somebody, it's not worth it! It's will only hurt and dissapoint you! And there is third option: share with everyone, known people, unknown, don't care that much. Write/say enough sensitive so people listen to you, and don't say too much personal information, that in future could harm You. World is full with crazy unstable people. Be aware what info You share. But to be honest, you never know, maybe it's all fake!?
Who cares and who's not? Simple as that: people who knows me - cares. People, who doesn't know me, doesn't care or I write true or not. Most important, that information is readable, interesting and informative.
So I am mixing few ingredients together: True, action, love & information. And then this delicious coctail are ready for people who visit my blog!
Thanks for being here with me!
Kind Regards,
Andrushka.

P.s. If we talk about memories, this is the first song I fall in love when I came to Cyprus! Still love it! Ahh, great memories! :)

    Last couple of days my mind is flying around the "Peace & war" subject! Had some chats with friends about it, but anyways I can not make my summary! This is not subject You can talk and go through it and fininsh it! This is never ending story. People fought for freedom and land, now people fight for money and power. What is army? Bunch of innocent man who were ordered to kill "enemy" and protect his land. Who didn't had choice to escape from army, because they threated you that your future is destroyed, or they will take away your wife and kids. Or raised and trained killers who are ordered to kill everything what moves in the war field? People? Machines?
    Why they teach us for army now? Some people will say: "They steel our time with stupid and useless things, I am just loosing time for my studies" and "They literally kidnap young boys, teach them to kill and teach how to use the guns to kill another human, what for"? And some other people would say: "Great! We need people who will protect us and our country, I am so proud of my soldier boy" and "In army every boy becomes man and learns to respect his country and other people" Isn't dilemma?
So there comes my questions:

• Do we need army? If yes - why?! If no - Why?!
• Did You finish your army service, if not why!? How did you escape of it?
  
• No armies - no war???
  
• Could You kill the people?
  
• What about human rights? people are forced to go to army? How comes? Where are human rights?
  

There are still 23 countries with mandatory military services!!! As Russia, Turkey, Greece, South Korea and others. These people have no choice to go to army or not! Then people try to leave country or any other reason to escape from military service! Is it normal? Are we slaves?


There are still so many things to talk about it! Sure we will, in short future wait for new blog! :)

    THE family of Georgios Chrysostomou, missing since the coup and invasion of 1974 at the age of 22, finally buried his remains yesterday in Limassol.  Chrysostomou’s remains were discovered in a mass grave in his home village of Ashia which is now occupied by Turkey. 

He was called up for duty during the 1974 Turkish invasion. 

His remains were identified via DNA testing. 

Justice Minister Loucas Louca addressed the mourners at the funeral service which was conducted by Limassol Bishop Athanasios. 

In Eleftheria square in Nicosia, meanwhile, relatives of missing persons attached yellow ribbons to a tree along with the names of loved ones who went missing in 1974. The ribbons are placed there every year, signifying hope that those who were left behind will eventually discover what had happened. 

To date, the Committee on Missing Persons in Cyprus has identified 310 individuals - 249 Greek Cypriots and 61 Turkish Cypriots - who went missing in the events of 1963-4 and 1974.

_I went to the party and remembered what you said. You asked me not to drink alcohol. So I drank a Sprite. I felt proud of myself, as you said I should feel. You said I should not drink and drive, contrary to what some friends told me. I made a healthy choice and your advice was correct, as all you give me forever.

When the party finally ended, people began to drive without being able to do so. I went to my car with the certainty that he would return home in peace. I never imagined what awaited me, Mom. Now I'm lying in the street and I hear the policeman say: "The kid that caused this accident was drunk." Mom, his voice seems so distant. My blood is spilled everywhere and I'm trying with all my might not moan. I can hear the doctors say, "This girl is going to die." I have the certainty that the young man, who ran at full speed, decided to drink and drive, and now I have to die.

Why do people do this, Mom, knowing that this is going to ruin many lives? The pain is cutting me like a hundred knives. Tell my sister not to cry, tell Daddy to be strong. And when I go to heaven, I'll be watching for you all. Someone should have taught that boy is wrong to drink and drive. Maybe if his parents would have said, I would not be dying now. My breath is getting weaker, more and more. Mom, these are my last moments and I feel so desperate. I wish I could hug Mom, while I'm lying here dying. I wish I could tell you how much I love you, Mom. So .. I love ... y. .. goodbye ... "

_    I am sick of people using God as a way to justify their hatred and their irrational fear, but most of all, using him to justify their desire for blood. The real sinners out there are the Homophobics who express their violence in the name of something peaceful, against people who have as much right, emotion and feeling as they do, if not more!

I'm a Christian and I am interested in religions of all cultures. Do NOT come and preach to me that I will go to hell for believing and supporting not 'Gay' rights - but HUMAN rights. Because your sexuality has nothing to do with your humanity.

_     Hey mates! How are You doing? I am fine, thanks, just now I am sitting here with laptop on my knees and hot mint tea with two teaspoons of sugar on my right side and cheezy crisps on the left. Time to time one of my eyes pays attention to Tv which shows some pretty stupid serial and quite inspiring advertisings! At least something usefull! As I started to upgrade my blog few days ago, every day some new ideas comes to my mind, but I really would like to hear from You my people! Suggestions, ideas, critics, anything! Talk to me through Facebook or [email protected]. That's it what I have to share with You tonight, but next news are coming soon! Have a great night/day wherever and whoever you are! Cheers ladies & gentleman! :) Goodnight, Kalinixta, Iyi Geceler, Arlabunakti! :) x x x

    Inspired by my friend Mumu I start to use my imagination! We had some interesting conversation about traveling. Actually these interesting conversations becomes as real life plans. Glad to have friend like Mumu! ;)
    However we did chat about making crazy trip to Europe in summer, which could be called like "Into the wild Europe"! Idea came up from amazing movie by Sean Penn, "Into the Wild".
Movie is about university graduated student, who abandons his possessions and gives his all money to charity and hitchhikes to Alaska to live in the wilderness! Traveling around country without money he experiences so many  wild adventures. Trying to survive from forest animals, birds etc. Life becomes wild!
    So according this movie we have idea to make wild trip to Europe! And here imagination start to work incredibly well. Adventures begins now!

    Read more in next posts!
    Andrushka.